Remember the old adage it's never to late to learn? Most of the messages we send out to other homo sapiens are subliminal. Roughly translated this means below the level of consciousness or sensation. The Art of flirting! You do not need to be devastatingly attractive, good at batting your eyelashes, big breasted or rich. What you must be is motivated to learn. So have a quick look and make a mental note... Make immediate direct eye contact, Eyes are the windows to the soul, they can establish intimacy, it can be caring or too intrusive, too much to soon can cause misunderstandings... Repeat the person's name.
Repeat the persons name when you are being introduced. Do it again during the course of the conversation, and again when saying goodbye.... Ask questions about the other person. It shows sincerity, Aristocraft trains it is off putting to go on a date and bombard the other person with the intimate details of your own life. Be light-hearted, when you begin to learn to flirt, remember it's supposed to be fun!
Without flirting the act of dating would be extinct, and there is an art to it which can be learnt. Learn your particular strengths and play to them, people love confidence. This is true of both dating in real life and meeting people online, if you know what makes you attractive (whether you agree with it or not) then you're off to a great start.
Lyndon Ogden is a writer on a number of subjects including Over 40 Dating. His latest project is based around Over 40 Dating, and Dating Online generally.
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